Best Man Duties: How to Play Your Role Properly?

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Being the best man is a huge honour and if you have been chosen for this role, it means you have a special place in someone’s heart and that person has given you a role that is both a blessing and a curse. As much as an honour this title represents, it’s also a huge responsibility. You have been presented with a challenging task and you need to answer it in the best possible way. However, the closer you are to the person getting married, the higher the stress level. Just don’t let it overwhelm you. Of course, there’s already a set of things that are expected that you arrange. Not to worry, we’re here with some Best man 101 to help you organize this huge mission.

Bachelor party

Planning a bachelor party definitely is your job and you’re expected to shine. Now, it all also depends on the groom and his wishes. Of course, take the wishes into account, but most people like to be surprised. Given that this is a close friend of yours, you’re expected to know them and plan the perfect party. First of all, you need to choose a theme for the party. It’s up to you to choose whether it will be strippers, bowling, attending a boxing match or renting jet skis. It’s definitely not a good idea to just “wing it” and see what happens. Make a careful plan of activities and make sure to always be in control during the night as you’re the organizer.

Wedding rings

The rings are your task, too. So, you are to be there for the bride and groom as they choose their rings or at least listen to their wishes if you are to buy them alone. The matter of payment differs from case to case. Generally, the rings should be the best man’s responsibility which would involve you paying for them, too. However, your job doesn’t stop here. Even you managed to avoid the hustle and bought the wedding rings online, you still have to be sober enough and bring them to the ceremony.

Go big for the tux

Being the best man is not just about your duties to the groom. Given that you’ll be in the first setting and in many of the photos, you are expected to suit up and look your very best. This is why you need to get fitted and be in sync with the other groomsmen, as well. You guys need to look homogeneous as it will look chaotic if each person takes care of their looks without any consultation.

Just be there

Regardless of your formal duties, your main duty is to be there when the panic strikes and it will strike. Every single person in the world has that self-reflecting moment befor7e the wedding that makes them doubt their decision and feel insecure and anxious. So, it’s your job to stay by the groom’s side and be the responsible assuring friend he needs. Your job is to be the rock, so be it. Unfortunately, you won’t be able to relax and get drunk like the others. When everything is finished and you made sure it all went down well, only then will you be able to relax.

Naturally, these are just some off the numerous best man duties. There are others, but we named the most important ones. After all, there’s no reason to panic. If you’re uncertain about some things, feel free to ask the groom openly. As long as you discuss all issues honestly and openly and you don’t embarrass your friend too much during the toast, you should be more than fine.

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